Real Love Exposes False Pretenses! Everyone has their concepts about love. Here is mine. Think of love as a body of water. Its lengths can never be measured. Its beginning has no ending points. Its depths are unknown; it spreads across the earth's horizon. Love is like water unable to be contained, only explored. What then, does love do to our relationships? It moves us into limitless explorations of emotional, mental, physical, psychological, and spiritual discoveries. It's

S-words in your mouth!

Feelings that keep old behaviors coming back!

"The good, bad, & ugly side of people"

Protect your Choices! "I could not afford to become reckless." Making the transition to adulthood was no easy task. I had won the right to make my choices, and it was harder than I expected. I spent most of my teenage life waiting to be grown, not realizing all the pressure would be on me. The responsibility of being responsible for every life decision was making me rethink life. The pressure to follow what others were doing was testing my upbringing. How much would it cost t

Know the consequences. My mother was the kind of Mom that knew what was going on in her house. Well, as much as she could. She came into my room to make her discovery known. "I came to let you know I found your cassette tape and threw it outside in the dumpster." I stood in my room, wondering how she found what I knew I had hidden. The cassette tape was not in the open, so how did it get in the dumpster? There was no doubt Mom went through my things? She was upset that I brok

"Anger is like a silent missile!" Why are some people more difficult to deal with than others? It doesn't take long for them to get mad, and they don't need a reason to start a fight. They are defensive. Never-mind trying to explain what you were trying to say it always goes, "to the left, to the left." Their anger is like a silent missile, out of nowhere, you hear shouting, raging, hollering, screaming, yelling, fussing, cussing, throwing, fighting, and attacks against you.

"They never had good intentions!"

How far will you go to be noticed?

Behaviors that alter your personality!

"Never walk-in with your eyes closed."

The Other Side of Love

Why do you want them by your side? For years, I convinced myself that I needed a husband to help me raise my three-year-old daughter. Well, my daughter is now 23, beautifully married, and I am still single. Obviously, my motive behind marriage was wrong, and not only could I raise her without a man by my side--I did. This is not meant to demise the male role, but to discourage settling for incompatible people for sex, money, or any other weak motive. Have you ever found yours

Don't pay the price for a lie your heart cannot handle You may not get the outcome you want.  What would you say if I told you the bible is a lie detector? Exposing the true intent or motive behind every act, deed, or gesture. It is imperative that we make sure we do not pay the price for a lie our heart cannot handle. By now, you know I like to use the transparency of my personal experiences to show spiritual truths that can help us with life lessons. There is a chilling st

Is the Adam and Eve story relevant, today? Eating Lies. Okay, let's get right to it. When it comes to the bible, some seem to think it's outdated, passed its time, or obsolete today. I mean think about it. Adam and Eve, Forbidden Fruit, a conversation with a snake... it just doesn't seem relatable, right? We can learn a lot from studying the bible. Take my experience for instance.  “Do you have a design in mind for your blog? Whether you prefer a trendy postcard look or you’